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"Sexy Day Smorgasbord" - A 'Choose-your-own Adventure' in Pleasure

Imagine sending your partner this text message:

"This is your Best Day Menu. You may choose any eight items from the following list. Reply with your selection in the exact order you want to experience them, separated by commas. Your wish is my command, in the order you desire."

You attach a list of items that you are capable, willing, and wanting to deliver over the duration of the day and evening. It is important that the options you give in the menu will be mutually enjoyed but your partner will be overjoyed to experience. Tip: Don't put the menu items in what might be considered - a typical or obvious order (EG: Breakfast first and Intercourse last) - keep your list random so they get to select their preferred order, for if they are anything like me, I will want the oral first!. I suggest no more than 12 options to choose from.


🧾 Sample Menu Ideas (they Pick 8, you give them 12), but of course propose those that you are able to organise and fit into your budget:

Food & Flirtation

  • Breakfast in Bed

  • Breakfast out

  • Champagne Brunch

  • Romantic Lunch

  • Cocktails & Nibbles

  • Dinner with a View

  • Picnic

  • Chocolate Tasting (on each other)

  • Feed Each Other Sushi (blindfolded)

Foreplay & Fun

  • Strip Poker

  • Lingerie Shopping Together

  • Mutual Masturbation Session

  • Catch a movie

  • A live comedy show

  • Sexy Selfie Photoshoot

  • A sexy boardgame

  • Watch Porn Together

  • Shower Together

  • Tease Session with Toys

  • Use of Remote-Controlled Vibrator in Public

Pleasure & Intimacy

  • Cunnilingus / Fellatio

  • Slow, Sensual Intercourse

  • Quickie in a Public Place

  • Roleplay (Costumes Provided)

  • BDSM Light (Ties, Spanks, Commands)

  • Watch Each Other Masturbate

  • Sensual Oil Massage

  • Ice Cube Play

  • Erotic Shibari

  • “Only Hands” Hour (No penetration)

Naughty Add-ons

  • Couples Lap Dance (you give it)

  • Visit a Strip Club Together

  • Take a Nude Art Class

  • Record a Sex Tape (private viewing only)

  • Tantric Sex Workshop

  • Dirty Talk Duel (who breaks first)

  • Public Display of Affection Challenge

  • Sensory Deprivation (Blindfolded experience)

  • Erotic Storytime (Read to each other)

Recovery & Romance

  • Afternoon Nap Together

  • Spa Day for Two

  • Sunset Walk

  • Cuddle and Chat Hour

  • Movie & Popcorn in Bed

  • Couples’ Meditation / Breathwork

  • Stargazing

  • A Sponge-bath (one of my selections....guaranteed...every time!)

🔥 Add a Twist:

Once the list is returned, you plan and orchestrate and start the day exactly in their selected order—no skipping, no swapping, and no early finishes.

Make a ritual of it. The menu can change every month. It's not just a date—it’s foreplay, connection, spontaneity, and seduction... all before you even take your pants off.


Enjoy your meal

Shelby Silk - Sexual Muse


PS: I would love to hear some of your menu ideas. Login to leave your ideas in the comments at the bottom of the page, or submit your story here.

 
 
 

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